Finding other couples in the LS can be a daunting task. We've come across all walks of life, from teachers, to healthcare workers, those serving in the military, IT professionals, engineers, and public servants. There are so many walking and hiding among us, but you would never know because most of us don't advertise it openly. Unfortunately, the LS has such a negative perception in the world and we generally have to protect our identities. Perhaps the best ways to identify like-minded people is to find them online. Here are a few resources that have been really helpful for us!
Kasidie
Kasidie gives us the old Facebook, but for swingers type of vibe. It's got a TON of users on the platform and you can meet people from all over the world. We love the ability to see who's viewing your profile and where they're from, send them a flirt (similar to the Facebook "poke" feature) and to have private photo albums so you can regulate who you allow to see more of you. You can also view people's upcoming travel plans AND events going on near you or in a region you are planning a trip to, which we really appreciate because we love to travel so often. We were reluctant to pay for a membership at first, but definitely have no regrets after. Highly recommend.
SDC
In our experience, SDC seems to be far more popular with people in southern states and on the east coast of the US. The interface is quite different than Kasidie's, but there are a lot of the same features available, which we appreciate. Private photo albums, see who's seeing you, upcoming events, etc. Like Kasidie, It's also a paid membership site, but well worth it if you are fully invested in the LS.
3Fun
3Fun is probably our favorite app because of it's extremely friendly interface. It's basically Tinder for swingers. We love that there are verified profiles because these apps can have ALOT of fake accounts, so definitely exercise caution and don't share private photos until you feel comfortable with who you've matched with. The database has a sizable amount of people and we've found matches in just about every state / country that we've traveled to. We've also noticed that it really caters to more swingers and couples than anything else. The name makes it sound like it's built for finding threesomes, but our experience has been very different considering we are a couple that looks for and plays with couples.
Feeld
The counter option that we've found opposite to 3fun has been the Feeld app. Like 3fun, it gives a Tinder type of vibe, but we've ran into more issues in regards to fake profiles and just generally loading the criteria of what we're looking for. On the flip side, we've met some of our favorite couples on this app who we are still very close to. This is the one app on this blog that we haven't made the commitment of paying for (yet), but still would recommend to people because of some of our best LS experiences coming from people we've met on it. One thing that stands out about Feeld more than the other sites mentioned is it seems to cater more to kinks. If you're into BDSM, rope play, trans / queer, then this is the app we would recommend most to you.
